{"id":2444,"date":"2019-08-16T19:40:26","date_gmt":"2019-08-16T19:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/?p=2444"},"modified":"2021-07-03T05:05:54","modified_gmt":"2021-07-03T05:05:54","slug":"friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/index.php\/2019\/08\/16\/friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2451\" src=\"https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Laura-and-Me-e1565982966155.jpg\" alt=\"Laura | www.patriciabaileyauthor.com\" width=\"700\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Laura-and-Me-e1565982966155.jpg 960w, https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Laura-and-Me-e1565982966155-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Laura-and-Me-e1565982966155-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><br \/>\nMy beautiful friend Laura is in the process of leaving this life. The news is both not completely unexpected, and, still, surprisingly sudden. Laura&#8217;s\u00a0 been my writing buddy, my cheerleader, and my regular Wednesday coffee date for years now, and I&#8217;m going to miss her wit, her energy, her smile, and her writing more than I can pretend to know.<\/p>\n<p>We took this picture last summer as part of a project she was doing. She photographed a day in her life &#8211; a day that consisted of breakfast and writing talk with me, a quiet memoir writing session on her beautiful deck, meditation group, and a glass of wine before dinner. Her days were the kind you dream about. A perfect mix of friends and family, of extroversion and introversion, of good wine, and good books, and deep conversation. The kind of day that comes from a lifetime of figuring yourself out and knowing what matters.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s Laura. Funny and smart. And forever herself. She has been my believing mirror &#8211; the person Julie Cameron says help us see ourselves and our dreams in the most positive light. The person who cheers us on when we are most doubtful of our abilities.<\/p>\n<p>I only hope I have been that for her, too.<\/p>\n<p>&lt;3<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1903\" src=\"https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/150-Transparentgirlwithdogcropped.png\" alt=\"PB | www.patriciabaileyauthor.com\" width=\"117\" height=\"79\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-315\" src=\"https:\/\/patriciabaileyauthor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/TrishSignatureblue.png\" alt=\"TrishSignatureblue\" width=\"75\" height=\"49\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My beautiful friend Laura is in the process of leaving this life. The news is both not completely unexpected, and, still, surprisingly sudden. 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